Choosing an engagement ring is one of life’s most meaningful decisions — a symbol of love, commitment, and the beginning of a new chapter. But with so many styles, stones, and settings to consider, the process can feel overwhelming. This guide walks you through the essentials so you can find the perfect ring with confidence.
1. Start with Their Style
The best place to begin is with personal style. Look at what they already wear:
- Minimalist & modern: sleek solitaires, clean bands, bezel settings
- Romantic & vintage-inspired: halos, milgrain, filigree details
- Bold & expressive: three-stone rings, coloured gemstones
- Classic & timeless: round diamonds, simple gold bands
2. Choose the Right Diamond Shape
Shape sets the tone of the ring. Some popular choices include:
- Round Brilliant: classic and the most sparkly
- Oval: elegant and elongating
- Emerald: clean lines and vintage glamour
- Pear: unique and feminine
- Princess: modern and geometric
- Cushion: romantic and soft
3. Understand the 4Cs
You don’t need to be an expert — just focus on what matters most:
Cut: the key to sparkle; always prioritise this.
Colour: near-colourless diamonds complement yellow and rose gold beautifully.
Clarity: look for stones that appear clean to the eye.
Carat: balance size with brilliance and budget.
4. Pick the Right Metal
Choose a metal that suits their everyday jewellery:
- Yellow Gold: warm, timeless
- White Gold: bright and modern
- Rose Gold: soft and romantic
- Platinum: luxurious and durable
5. Consider Their Lifestyle
Think about how the ring will be worn day to day:
- Very active? Choose a low-set solitaire or bezel setting.
- Work with gloves/tools? Avoid high-prong settings.
- Love sparkle? A halo adds maximum brilliance.
- Prefer simplicity? A classic solitaire is always elegant.
6. Think About the Wedding Band
Choosing both rings together ensures a perfect fit. Consider:
- Bands that sit flush or contour neatly
- Diamond, plain, or mixed-metal bands
- Future stacking possibilities
7. Consider a Bespoke Design
If you want something truly personal, a bespoke engagement ring lets you design every detail — a meaningful way to create a ring that tells your story.
8. Try It On In Person
Photos can only show so much. Visiting a jeweller helps you see how different shapes, settings, and metals look on the hand. The right ring always feels right.
Final Thoughts
Choosing an engagement ring should feel exciting, not overwhelming. Whether you’re drawn to timeless solitaires or vintage-inspired designs, the perfect ring is the one that reflects your love and their personal style.
Our team at Wrights is here to guide you through every step — from choosing your diamond to designing a bespoke piece.
Discover engagement rings or learn more about our bespoke service.
